Defining Quality Time

January 3, 2009 · Filed Under Experiences, Fatherhood · 2 Comments

Since our time with Cooper is limited during the week, the “quality” time I spend with him sometimes manifests in unconventional ways. One of those ways has become a 10:00 PM checkup and diaper change. He normally sleeps through the ritual, but it’s a chance for me to appreciate just what a great little person he is. During those few minutes, I get to watch him make his little toddler expressions and listen to the relaxing sound of his breath. Before I set him back down in his crib, I hold him for a few minutes and tell him how loved he is.

Though I could look at this nightly checkup as a chore, I actually look forward to it most nights. It’s a great way for me to end the day on a good note, and appreciate Cooper in a different way. I often get as much out of those few moments as I do out of a few hours of play time.